Jul 26, 2017, 7:28 AM ET

Family searching for answers after daughter dies at resort during vacation in Mexico


A Wisconsin family plans to file a lawsuit after their 20-year-old daughter died under mysterious circumstances at a five-star resort during a family vacation earlier this year in Playa del Carmen, Mexico.

Abbey Conner, 20, and her brother, Austin Conner, 23, were found floating face down in a pool at the Iberostar Playa Paraiso Resort just two hours into a vacation with their mother, Ginny McGowan, and stepfather, John McGowan.

Abbey Conner sustained a broken collarbone and was brain dead before succumbing to her injuries in a Florida hospital days later.

“To this day I don’t think it was an accident,” Austin Conner told ABC News of the events that unfolded. He said that he and his sister had been drinking before their swim, but he could not recall how many drinks they had.

"We swim around for a little bit and we decide let's celebrate with a drink so we go up to the bar and another group that was already there, we just start talking," he said, adding that they did not know the people at the bar.

"The bartender pours out a line of shots and I take one and, you know, everyone else does," Austin Conner said. "The last thing I remember was like we are right now, sitting here talking, and lights went out and I woke up in the ambulance."

Austin Conner, who does not remember how many shots of alcohol he took, suffered a concussion and had a golf ball-sized lump on his head, the family said.

He and his sister had a blood alcohol level of .25 at the time of the incident, according to toxicology reports from the Playa del Carmen medical clinic where Austin and Abbey Conner were taken. The siblings' blood alcohol level was three times the limit in their home state of Wisconsin.

The family says a resort guest found Abbey Conner and Austin Conner floating face down in the pool. The siblings were transported to a local hospital, but the McGowans said they were not notified.

When the siblings did not show up for dinner, their mother tried to reach them. "I said, 'I just I need to call their room because I can't contact them any other way to find out where they are,'" Ginny McGowan recalled telling a resort employee. "And she said, 'Is your husband here with you?,' And I'm like, 'Well, yeah, he's sitting right over there.'"

"And then she went and got the general manager and quickly brought me to John [and] explained that there had been an accident," she said.

When asked if he possibly drank too much, Austin Conner replied, "I've thought about it and I mean it is a possibility but how, if we're in a group of people, do two people at the same exact time just pass out in the pool and no one sees it?"

Mexican officials ruled Abbey Conner's death an accidental drowning, but her family members say local police refused to investigate further into what caused her death. The family said they hired an interpreter and went to the local police department in person to file a report, but said police refused to take a report or open an investigation, saying they considered the event an accident. The local police did not comment to ABC News. The State Attorney General of Quintana Roo told ABC News there is no police report or record of an investigation into this case.

Abbey Conner's family has hired an attorney and plans to file a lawsuit against Iberostar.

"We need the hotel to allow the police and our investigators to access the employees that were there," the family's attorney, Florentino A. Ramirez, told ABC News.

Iberostar Paraiso Resort told ABC News in a statement earlier this month that its personnel “acted with urgency, following established protocols” after finding Abbey and Austin Conner in the pool. Both received “immediate medical attention” from an on-staff doctor, according to the resort.

“We are deeply saddened by this incident and reiterate our deepest sympathies and condolences to the family,” the resort said, adding that it “takes this matter very seriously and has always remained cooperative. The safety and security of guests is utmost priority for us.”

The resort is also defending itself against suggestions that tainted alcohol could have played a role in Abbey Conner's death.

Officials in Mexico said they have seized 1.4 million gallons of tainted alcohol from Mexican businesses over the last seven years, including resorts, clubs, bars, warehouses and manufacturers. The Mexican Health Ministry told ABC News it has no records of any adulterated or seized alcohol from Iberostar resorts.

Iberostar released a statement explaining its alcohol standards to The Milwaukee Journal-Sentinel when the newspaper published an article last week on Abbey Conner's death.

"We work with a host of providers not unique to IBEROSTAR who service other hotel chains and renowned brands," the statement said in part. "Similarly, we only purchase sealed bottles that satisfy all standards required by the designated regulatory authorities."

The statement continued, "We are deeply saddened by this incident and reiterate our deepest sympathy and condolences to the family."

Ginny McGowan said she is remembering her daughter as someone who was "happy" and "on the right path, a good path for her."

"I guess I would tell her I hope she didn't suffer at all and I hope she's at peace," Ginny McGowan said. "We miss you."

When asked what message he wants to give to his sister, Austin Conner replied, "I say thank you for being there for me up to this point and I wouldn't do it without you. So thank you and I love you."

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  • DB

    no witnesses? No cameras?

  • G de Vader

    "Someone needs to be held responsible for this"
    How about the home school teacher not informing his students about the danger of getting drunk in a pool?

  • Kimberly Brooks-Knapp

    Did the brother do it

  • anastasiabeaverhousen

    Seems pretty straightforward. Drunk swimming. Brother probably jumped in and landed on her. The family is grieving and looking for something more "meaningful", but stupid accidents happen all the time.

  • mnedes

    Maybe they both jumped in at the same time ?

  • S L Andrew Palms

    We'll probably never know what really happened. Darwin wins again.

  • Daisy Jane

    There's so much more to this story than what ABC has written. I'd be inclined to believe she was just drunk & drowned too ... until learning her brother almost drowned too at the same time AND she had a broken collarbone AND how shoddy it was handled. Very scary. Look up one of the original reports on another website.

  • E Sverdrup

    This is why I like cameras in public places.

  • Robert Byrnes

    Answers: they got wasted, knocked themselves out, and then drowned. Mystery solved.

  • SpankyHamm

    This happened 6 months ago. Why is this news now?

  • Abby1

    I think someone slipped drugs into their drink. It was possibly someone from that group that bought them the drinks, or it could even be a staff member. It also strange that other guests from that hotel has previously reported blacking out and getting violently ill after a drink.

  • Quantez Williams

    You want answers? I've got three words for ya: Point, two, five.

  • 3 Wise Men

    What am I missing here. At first I thought both of them died. Now it seems only the daughter died. Can't the guy who didn't die tell them what happened. The video said he barely remembers anything. What does he remember?

    There's something odd going on here.

  • Weather3014

    Boy the comments here are sure judgmental of the drinking part of the story. Being drunk around water is definitely dangerous, but there must be some witnesses. Granted you can drown in only a few inches of water, but nobody noticed? And although the concussion could be from diving in the chest deep water, how did the girl get a clavicle fracture? You don't need the cooperation of the Mexican police because the family can get an independent autopsy performed in the US when they repatriate the body and verify the tox and alcohol screening. A drowning is not hard to tell because the water is deep within the lungs and bruises tell the story of an assault. The cause of death will be easy to prove. The problem will be if it is not consistent with accidental drowning because the family will never get the cooperation of the resort or the police.

  • RobertJohns

    DUI? Diving Under the Influence?

  • Mike O

    Mexicans bought her and her brother a shot, and obviously gave her a roofie so they could bang her the dam losers

  • Banned Squirrel

    Pool + drunk = Duh
    Simple enough for even a Kardashian

  • Coolone

    Because you know... The .25BAC had nothing to do with it! Where were the parents? Is tragic, but maybe if the patents were paying attention to their kids 2 things would've happened. 1, they wouldn't have been smashed... 2, the daughter, in all probability would be alive!

    But typical as it is, blame someone else, look for fault in others! Guess they just can't come to terms that it's their fault!

  • Mari Marigold

    How did she end up with a broken collarbone and him with a concussion? Did they both trip and fall into the pool? Were there any witnesses to this event? This is a resort; you mean to tell me no one saw them by the pool? Witnesses would be able to testify to the fact that they were drunk and horsing around. What else would explain how they ended up at the bottom of a pool that was only waist deep? Who were they drinking with?

  • J-dawg

    Sounds like the kids got drunk, one jumped on the other, and that was that.