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Paroma
Directed by Aparna Sen
1984
I would
highly recommend this to all
of you, not for it cinematographic qualities but for a very
taboo
topic handled in a great manner. The Bengalis amongst y'all
might
appreciate it even more as the culture portrayed is urban
upper middle
class Bengali. Reportedly, the movie caused a big uproar
amongst the
upper middle class in Calcutta but surprisingly, also found
many
sympathisers. The movie is about a traditional middle-aged
Bengali
housewife (played by Rakhi) who has an affair with a young
NRI on
vacation in India. One of the interesting points in the
movie, I found,
was the ease with which Rakhi's college going daughter
ridicules
her (Rakhi's) traditional, dependent lifestyle but at the same
time, fails to understand and/or sympathize with the mother
when
she tries to seek her freedom. I thought that there was a
parallel
between this and "Joy Luck Club" in that respect. I am not
sure if
I could pin-point the parallelism but it seemed that in both
movies,
they show how easy it is to *sound* and believe oneself to be
independent and liberated (as in the case of the daughters in
both
movies who grow up in less constricting surroundings) as
opposed to
*acting* on such beliefs, which more often than not, require
a
higher level of retrospection, strength and maturity.
-- Veena Gondhalekar
Film description: A respectable Bengali housewife loses her heart to a visiting photographer, and what's worse, refuses to repent as the family demands.
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